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Weddings & the performance of it
Weddings have always been performances. The only difference is that we've become better at producing them. It's funny because we're constantly hearing that weddings are becoming more intimate. Guest lists are shrinking. Couples want "smaller celebrations." Personalisation has become the keyword. People don't want a big fat Indian wedding anymore, they want an experience. Yet somehow, the budgets haven't received the memo. If anything, they've only gone up. The intimacy is rea
2 days ago
the anti-inflammatory burger
To say that a burger can be anti-inflammatory sounds ridiculous. Which is exactly why it might be worth paying attention to. We live in a time where every bite is analysed, every ingredient dissected, every meal expected to move us closer to some ideal version of health. Food is no longer just food. It is data. It is discipline. It is identity. But what if the real inflammation isn’t in the burger itself, but in the anxiety surrounding it? When I call a burger anti-inflammato
Apr 22
rethinking attraction in an over-aware world
“He is, well, harmless.” “And that is a problem because?” At first, I thought she was joking. How could you call someone decent, ‘harmless’, and ghost him before a second date? Her argument was that it’s because he was too simple that she couldn’t get around the idea of hanging out with him as a potential partner for the future. She ghosted him because he was too simple. Not inappropriate, not emotionally unavailable and/or confusing in any way, at least not in the way that m
Apr 22
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